The best thing you can do, is surround yourself with people who love you. From the moment I arrived I could feel the love everyone had for Jasen and Alexis. They came from all over for her special day, Georgia, California, Hawaii, from all walks of life, old and new, from the different schools and jobs and adventures, all were there for her. I have never been to a wedding where the bridal party ended the ceremony in a group hug. This was not a traditional wedding. With the 13 brides maids, her friend preforming the ceremony, 2 flower girls and 4 ring bearers. Nothing about this was normal, but it was perfect.